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My new "life" Philosophy
Topic Started: Feb 27 2006, 02:53 AM (869 Views)
Frankie
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As you all know, I've been having a rough time staying together recently, so I was thinking today and last night. I thought, how could I make my life better and in a happier zone.

Everyone has different outviews on life, no two people will have the same outviews on life. They can have the same Religion and Believes, but everyone lives they're life differently.

I, if you know me personally. Know i'm a very big advice giver and a very big thinker and I like to keep too myself and I have my own opinions. But, also you would know i've been through alot of tragedies in my life. But , we all experience problems. It's just how we handle those problems, which matter the most.

So, with all this said. I thought, we all just keep running on one circle, some run in the same circle for years some run in it for they're whole life. The point of life, is too stop running in that circle and move on and make your own circle with your own life and with your own support.

So, I thought, if I wanted to stay strong, if I wanted persiverance and happiness in life. What would I have to do?

My answer is , be independent. Accept myself. Truely, you cannot accept someone else until you have accepted yourself. You cannot truely forgive someone else until you forgiven yourself and can accept defeat/mistakes/horrible memorys/e.t.c

With, all this said. I want to live my life, the way I want too. We all want this, but this means different for each person like I said above. Some live they're life supporting friends and gettin support from friends. Some live it by work and ambition. There are million of different ways people live life off other things.

I personally, use to be the most sociable guy in Elementry and High School. Believe it or not, I was on alot of sport(s) teams and still am. But I was also a big pot smoker and I was known for that. I was the type, that didn't hang with one crowd but many crowds. I wasn't ever anti-social, everyone knew me or knew of me and alot of them would atleast communicate to me and we would have normal conversations.

Then recently, I got expelled, I left school and I continued on working at home by myself. I started becoming anti-social, if it were a sport(s) team, a group of friends or over instant messenger. I just wasn't the same, I wasn't the outgoing person who could walk up to some stranger and talk to them and just make a friend easy. Before I could of, I wasn't afraid of how ugly I looked, how stupid my voice was or who I was.

But all that self-confidence eventually fell apart and I became a broken emotionless person inside, lost. Not knowing myself, not knowing what life was.

So, came the conclusion of this discussion I am starting with you guys. My "New" Philosophy for my life. I really, don't need people to make me happy ,sure it is good too have friends, I do have friends, I have alot of them. But really, you can't depend on other(s) all the time you need self will.

So this is why, I personally believe. You need to live life one day at a time. Look at the past, learn from all the tragedies, mistakes and pain that has occured in your life. But also, know. This life is one chance for us all, life isn't what a person looks like, what they do or what they accomplish. All those things are just a bonus too life. What matters is the inner strength you have, the unique you have to yourself and how strong you can be.

I'm not afraid to show emotion, i'm not afraid to cry, i'm not afraid to speak my mind. I'm not afraid too tell you to freak off if your pissing me off. I'm not afraid to kiss a love in my life, I'm not afraid of death. But more importantly, i'm not afraid of life. I know, sacrafication is important in life. If you see someone down in the ditch. You pick them up, you give all the power you have in yourself, just so you can see them smile, be happy and be strong. Because, recently for the last few months I haven't smiled once. But it's time for a change, it's time to find myself. It's time to say, this one chance will be the best chance I have ever taken the upper hand of.

So too end this I would like to end it qith a quote I wrote, so please use it if you'd like, in a msn name or in a poem. Or just feel it, just acknowledge it and know it come's from my heart, from desire too live.

"Life is based on skill. Love is based on teamwork. Death is based on playing out the rest of this game." - Frankie Carver
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sounds like a great new philosophy. Love the quote as well.
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very intersting agree with what you SS4 looks like you'r taking control of you'r life and are going to make it better
i'll destroy all the sayian race Except vegeta he's Cool
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That is completely my opinion. I never realized it before, but when i read your text i understood that i thought the same.
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it's because you smoked pot...
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Hey no need for such a comment, i think you dont understand what we are talking about... and you dnot know ss4 so you CANT understand...
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Source of power, what made you say such a stupidity thing? Mental Problems?

@ .Rev: Thanks man, you saying you can relate means more then you can imagine :)
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I don't know you very well, so I admit that I can't understand how you feel about this, but I do agree with what you said. To be happy in life, you have to make yourself happy first. You can do it in different ways and that depends on who you are. If you know what you want, becoming happy is easy. All you need to do is get it.

Nice quote too. ;)
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well you were an athelete a good one from the sounds of things good things going for you and it all got ruined my solution is drugs...so many friends i knew who were amazing athelete's on my football team and basketball team took drugs and ruined their career...that's why i said it...what i meant by it is that dont take drugs again or you will ruin your 'new philosophy'
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