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Topic Started: Dec 6 2005, 04:21 AM (1,058 Views)
* Shiloh
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i have this problem, i have been w/ my BF for 7 months. just now he seems depressed, after 40 min of probing his mind he likes one of my best friends (beleive it or not i am not mad) but he said 'i know i will come right back to you and realize i should have been happy with what i had.'

but i realize, whether he admits it or not, there MUST be some thing about me that he dissagrees w/ that makes his mind wander to others you kno? (our personalities clash alot)

but now we on a 'break', i know my friend will reject him and as he said he will come right back to me... but if something made him do that once, he'll surely do it again, even if it takes another 7 months... so i fear going with him again will make this happen all over again... so i don't wanna hurt em, he is one of my BEST friends, so what the hell am i supposed to do when he does come back??

i... think maybe we needed to break it off... we feel less in love and more like freak buddies that like each other alot you kno? i am afriad i'll get to school tomarrow and he'll say "OH I MADE A MISTAKE! I DON'T WANT A BREAK!" or that he'll wait awhile and want me back... i almost... want something more and i am so confused... :( :'(
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You should definately break it off with him.
Trust me. You'd be a lot happier without.
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Been there, done that. When you get to be my (undisclosed) age, you'll understand how important it is, NOT having a boyfriend at this point in your life.
Just because it was 7 months doesnt mean it can be something good.
I was with someone for a year and a half and nothing good came of it.
Especially if you think of him as a good friend rather than someone you have a bond with.
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It takes a mere second for treasure to turn to trash.

This happens all the time. A common problem I may say. Sometimes in relationships the couple are seeing each other too often. So they become to get bored of each other. So they decide for like a break you said and possibly date other people. Relax, it'll work out. Do you spend a lot of time together? If this is so and the break is going on I would say thats the problem. When one person interacts socially with another for a long period of time and often can be boring, or can cause fights because it becomes annoying in a way. This is also for friends too, this isn't only in relationships. I know from experience, I had a friend, we spent nearly every day with each other and occasionally we faught because of this. We stayed away from each other for a few days and we had fun again.
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* Shiloh
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yeah... but the thing is we see each other what.. 3 times a day.... on weekdays. lol it's a mental thing.. and freak he likes my best friend rrgg
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Have you told him how you feel about this?

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um no. he seemed better today, he asked me if i would be ok.. (and trust me i am fine LOL) anyway he keeps trying to cuddle but i am reluctant... i only do that crap with the one i'm with and he said himself he's 'single' as he tried to cuddle... sigh i was like ok.....
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Seems like he's trying to get back with you or something. I mean you could give him a second chance or tell him to f*ck off, in friendly terms of course, lol.

They always come crawling back...tch.

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yeah ^^ i am leaning toward the second one lol but it is wierd, it's like he doesn't want to be with me persay (like he isn't acting that way) but still tries to cuddle and stuff... but i don't like to do that because it's like if you wanna be apart then lets friggen be APART LOL
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Ah I see, so he's acting like he doesn't want to be with you and then he tries to cuddle you and stuff? Seems like he's trying to take a lil control eh? I mean tell him straight up that you don't wanna be with him any more, if he can't make up his damn mind. Don't say it in a mean way that'll break his heart but you know what I mean, lol.


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Nope. Dump him. Right now, relationships aren't really important in your life. Chances are you will never stay with someone until marriage. And I know what he is trying to do, after all, I am a guy.

He is trying to take a "break" with you so he could see if he could go out with someone else. And if they say no, he comes crawling back until someone says yes.
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exactly, i figured that lol ^^ i really... i don't want to be with him. i care especially after 7 months but our personalities kind of clash, they have a long time. maybe i only tell my self i care... you kno? i think we done.
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boomboompow.

Yea, just breakup with him. I prolly isn't going to work out especially like you said with your personailties.

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* Shiloh
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we're broken up... and i think it might be over totally you kno... but he keeps asking me if i'm still single XD and he tried to kiss megoodbye but i kinda turned away when he did like as if to say OMFG STOP!
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OMFG LOL.

Nip that in the bud right now!! I think he wants you as his recluse or something if he can't find no one o.O

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yeah, he keeps saying he's single still and asks if i am... as if to say i have no one, you still single XD
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