Why are some women hypocritical in a relationship?

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Why are some women hypocritical in a relationship?
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supermanlovesgoku	Oct 21 2017, 01:40 AM Post #1
Posts: 5 Group: New Member Member #14,114 Joined: October 21, 2017 Gender Not Specified Country None What Browser do you use? Firefox	My wife and her friends talks to about crushes and secret fantasies, but she gets really mad when i tell her about my crush.



+ Pyrus	Oct 21 2017, 01:48 AM Post #2
Posts: 39,342 Group: Legend Member #5,088 Joined: August 1, 2010 Gender Not Specified Country Chile	That's been my experience in every relationship except a select few so far.
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Tinny	Oct 21 2017, 03:30 AM Post #3
Posts: 6,060 Group: Super Moderator Member #12,355 Joined: May 24, 2015 Gender Not Specified Favourite Anime Silver Spoon, Fate/Zero, Legend of Galactic Heroes, Space Patrol Luluco, Psycho-pass, Miss Kobayashi What Browser do you use? Chrome, Edge Favourite Manga Wizard's Soul ~Holy War of Love~	You'd have to ask your wife and her friends. Presumably their reasons aren't going to be the same as the other 3.5 billion women on the planet. It might have to do with a lack of communication on one of or more likely both of your parts if I had to hazard a guess, though it's more or less a shot in the dark. Still, I find that's generally the root of a lot of problems in relationships between people.
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Daemon Keido	Oct 21 2017, 03:39 AM Post #4
Warmaster of Chaos Posts: 3,915 Group: RP Moderator Member #6,491 Joined: July 16, 2011 Gender Male Country Canada Favourite Anime Dragonball Z, of course Favourite Manga Currently Toriko	I've never had this issue with my girlfriend. We are both very open with stuff like that and it never caused any issues. You two need to talk, without her friends if at all possible.
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+ Emmeth	Oct 21 2017, 05:23 AM Post #5
I ♥ Yoeri Posts: 20,075 Group: Legend Member #8,985 Joined: February 7, 2013 Country Japan	It really depends on the person, because this is definitely not the norm. It's also not just women, some men are also jealous types that can't stand hearing about former partners/crushes.
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* Mitas	Oct 21 2017, 08:29 AM Post #6
It truly was a Shawshank redemption Posts: 12,129 Group: Retired Staff Member #2,993 Joined: December 16, 2007 Gender Male Favourite Anime DBZ What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga DBZ, Full Metal Alchemist	Same reason some men are hypocrites in relationships: people are often hypocritical.
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+ Steve	Oct 21 2017, 05:24 PM Post #7
Greetings. I will be your waifu this season. Posts: 19,471 Group: Legend Member #5,710 Joined: February 7, 2011 Gender Male Country United Kingdom Favourite Anime Hunter x Hunter(2011) What Browser do you use? Mozilla Firefox Favourite Manga Berserk all day erry day	I do see this a lot with women though, they'll ogle hot guys at the beach and stuff but when they're man does it they get pissed about not being enough for him and all that. I guess maybe it's because men are typically the chasers and if a man is showing interest that can be taken as them planning to accost random hot chicks, whereas women are usually the ones being accosted so perhaps they view it as okay because they won't be doing any chasing. Which is kind of a lack of trust really. Though reasonable if it's like a close friend or an ex you claim to have the hots for but just random people or celebrities should hold no issue really.
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* Mitas	Oct 21 2017, 05:47 PM Post #8
It truly was a Shawshank redemption Posts: 12,129 Group: Retired Staff Member #2,993 Joined: December 16, 2007 Gender Male Favourite Anime DBZ What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga DBZ, Full Metal Alchemist	I'd say it probably happens in similar numbers for both sexes. Jealousy isn't a gender-specific trait. But in healthy relationships, it shouldn't really be an issue.
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Bad User	Oct 21 2017, 07:56 PM Post #9
Posts: 630 Group: Member Member #13,968 Joined: July 23, 2017 Gender Other	Mitas Oct 21 2017, 08:29 AM Same reason some men are hypocrites in relationships: people are often hypocritical. ^ This. A truly wise person doesn't generalize a specific gender or any group of people based on their experience alone. We can't include billions of humans into our conversation, right? But I were to give any advice, how exactly did you find out what she talks about with her friends? If they did it privately, unless it is personally related to you, you should give her some intimacy. Generally, giving each other space is essential to a healthy relationship. If she talks in your presence AND it bothers you, you should have a talk with her and ask her to stop, regardless of anything. It's also essential to respect each other's feelings. You should come to terms and make a pact. If she talks in your presence and you give no s*** about it, but she does when you do, you should understand the fact that she's your wife, not your clone. You can't be the same in everything. One person may be jealous whereas the other one is perfectly ok hearing the other's full history even with juicy details. If it doesn't bother you hearing your wife's chattering but she'd rather not hear about your crushes, what's the problem? Where I actually wanted to get... We don't know all the factors, but my point is, it's not necessarily about hypocrisy all the time. A relationship will always have two people confronting their differences.



+ QueenTD	Oct 21 2017, 09:23 PM Post #10
My Dear Melancholy, Posts: 4,480 Group: Elite Member Member #11,589 Joined: August 8, 2014 Gender Female Country United States	Well then....I'm just flabbergasted at the topic. Talk to your wife and handle ya business
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* Light	Oct 31 2017, 07:53 PM Post #11
Yo Posts: 5,563 Group: Retired Staff Member #2,705 Joined: October 5, 2007 Gender Not Specified Country United Kingdom Favourite Manga The Story of Light the Legend by Cal/DBZF Invasion! by Copy_Ninja	Mitas Oct 21 2017, 05:47 PM I'd say it probably happens in similar numbers for both sexes. Jealousy isn't a gender-specific trait. But in healthy relationships, it shouldn't really be an issue. Completely agree, I have plenty of guy friends who are the jealous, insecure type. I also have plenty of female friends who are exactly the same.



+ Clearin	Oct 31 2017, 10:00 PM Post #12
Posts: 12,580 Group: Elite Member Member #6,372 Joined: June 18, 2011 Gender Not Specified Country United Kingdom	I think one of the bigger reasons for hypocrisy in general is that every action you make has been justified and thought over in your head. You understand your intentions behind everything you do. You don't know the thought process of a decision other people make, which leads to more worrying and paranoia. It's easy to talk about finding someone attractive knowing full well you have no intention of ever doing anything about it. It's not as easy to hear your partner talk about someone attractive, not knowing what they're thinking behind that.



Dingo	Oct 31 2017, 10:33 PM Post #13
Posts: 557 Group: Orangutan Member #9,745 Joined: July 13, 2013 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime Dragonball What Browser do you use? Chrome	You're easy going when she does it so she does it. Why would she stop if on the outside you don't seem to care? Some girls grow up gossiping and talking about boys and when they get in a relationship they might not even think twice about continuing because it's harmless. If you communicate your feelings they'd prob stop but might make u look insecure. I'm making assumptions but WTV. Edited by Dingo, Oct 31 2017, 10:41 PM.
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