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Unbreakable friendship bonds
Topic Started: Nov 28 2016, 04:53 AM (1,772 Views)
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What are your opinions on unbreakable friendship bonds? Do you think they really exist out there for some people? Do you have any friends who you consider as having unbreakable bonds with you no matter how negative you are in life?

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I've witnessed it on multiple occasions I believe.
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There's no such thing as an unbreakable relationship bond. What if they killed every member of your family? Extreme example, but there's always a line to be crossed.
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Nov 28 2016, 08:36 AM
There's no such thing as an unbreakable relationship bond. What if they killed every member of your family? Extreme example, but there's always a line to be crossed.
What if the family member was with the friend in a car accident, killed, and it wasn't the friend's fault, but the other driver's?
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Nov 29 2016, 03:12 AM
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Nov 28 2016, 08:36 AM
There's no such thing as an unbreakable relationship bond. What if they killed every member of your family? Extreme example, but there's always a line to be crossed.
What if the family member was with the friend in a car accident, killed, and it wasn't the friend's fault, but the other driver's?
Then that isn't Mitas's example? Maybe in the letter of what he said but certainly not in the spirit of the statement.

As for my own opinion, they don't, friendship's take some effort to maintain, close ones as will as more distant ones. At least in my own opinion I've never really had a friendship I can describe as unbreakable, as far as I can tell you have to chose to maintain them and cherish them and keep them close to you.
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I've got friends ive known for over 22 yrs and at this point I'll mostly have them until I die regardless of those hypothetical scenarios cuz they wouldn't be friends if they were the type to do those so......
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Ughh without going into extremes I have a few close friends. Like if we dont talk for 2 weeks or 2 years it doesnt matter one bit, we will also just pick up where we left off, and get back into the our rhythm as friends real quick.
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I think to some degree. Some of my old friends are complete strangers to me now. Others I can sit down with after not seeing them for a year or years and we pick up where we left off lol. The latter are the people I don't worry about the fact that I am not seeing them, because I know they will still be them when I do see them next. If that makes any sense at all. :p
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For me they don't seem to exist, but it really just depends on the personalities of the people involved. No two people are the same.

I'm not the type of person to form close bonds with platonic friends, mostly because I find it difficult to commit my time to a variety of people. This is apparently a common problem among antisocials or introverts. I have a lot of "friends" that operate more like acquaintances; we talk every now and then, maybe hang out every now and then, but we don't have a deep connection. But I also have no desire to end any friendships or hurt anyone. I've had close bonds in the past with friends, but it always ended horribly because the other person wanted it to end for whatever reason. I can't sympathize with or understand people who end friendships. To me, it just isn't necessary unless the other person has seriously wronged you. But throughout my short lifetime, I've realized that a lot of people don't feel the same way that I do. They'll end friendships seemingly at the drop of a hat. I've always encountered and been friends with those sorts of people. I only have a couple of friends that feel similarly to me and don't feel the need to end friendships when they get bored or over something petty.

I invest most of my emotional energies into my family and significant other because those are the people that will (or at least plan to) be around forever.
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Having very little to no family left (most of them have died in the past year or are very long distance) and also being an introvert, I have to admit, you bring up good points. I seriously don't have any friends either. The one friend I had come over every week hasn't been over in months. But he is a good example. If he walked in right now it wouldn't feel like anything was different. If he was gone for five years we could probably cover what happened in about two minutes :lol: I try to form close bonds with people. My friend Elliott is gay and we have almost nothing in common but honestly, if I don't see him for a year, he and I act like no time at all has really passed. I don't really have any friends but the people that used to be in my life I still hold tremendous respect for, especially when they reach out.

Just the guy who hasn't been over in months, Ethan, messaged me on FB and apologized and told me "I love you buddy!! I hope I can stop by some weekend!"

Not sure if I'm an introvert or an extrovert. I've been called both by plenty of people.

In any case, I don't need to be around people all the time because I think that the few distant relationships I have maintained are strong enough. Even if I am completely alone most of the time, it's comforting to know someone still understands me somewhere.
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I don't believe such a thing exists, but then again I have a fairly different experience than most people. Most don't have their best friend they'd consider a brother f*** their sister and then do it again through blackmailing them, holding rent money and whether or not they'd live on the street or not over their head.
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Nov 29 2016, 04:00 PM
I don't believe such a thing exists, but then again I have a fairly different experience than most people. Most don't have their best friend they'd consider a brother f*** their sister and then do it again through blackmailing them, holding rent money and whether or not they'd live on the street or not over their head.
Oh trust me, I'm sure most of us have had experiences like that, whether it's a friend, best friend, or lover. This forum is a cesspool for the emotionally damaged.
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Nov 29 2016, 04:01 PM
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I don't believe such a thing exists, but then again I have a fairly different experience than most people. Most don't have their best friend they'd consider a brother f*** their sister and then do it again through blackmailing them, holding rent money and whether or not they'd live on the street or not over their head.
Oh trust me, I'm sure most of us have had experiences like that, whether it's a friend, best friend, or lover. This forum is a cesspool for the emotionally damaged.
Fair enough, I was thinking more in terms of as a whole it's not that common of an experience. Didn't take into account gatherings of a specific group.
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Nov 29 2016, 03:30 PM
I invest most of my emotional energies into my family and significant other because those are the people that will (or at least plan to) be around forever.
I don't really understand that statement. Does that mean you don't plan to be around friends forever?
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Eh my best friend nailed my girlfriend after drugging her just to lose his virginity. Nowhere near as bad, but, that's the closest way I could possibly relate. I'm sorry Connor, that is extremely f***ed.
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