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| Thoughts on male birth control? | |
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Nov 1 2016, 02:25 PM Post #31 |
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Lol, you do realize that women suffer those same side-effects from birth control pills, right? |
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| * Yu Narukami | Nov 1 2016, 04:37 PM Post #32 |
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Izanagi!
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Yes, I do. I never said anything about my view on female birth control though. |
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Nov 1 2016, 04:48 PM Post #33 |
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I think that if men are whining about the side effects, maybe they should consider the fact that women have been suffering through those side effects (and much, much worse) since birth control was invented. There's no such thing as full-proof birth control. At least not yet. |
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| * Mitas | Nov 1 2016, 04:51 PM Post #34 |
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Maybe women should have whined about the side effects too? |
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"Then you've got the chance to do better next time." "Next time?" "Course. Doing better next time. That's what life is." | |
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Nov 1 2016, 04:56 PM Post #35 |
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They did. That's why we have such mild side effects now. Women used to die from taking birth control. If men can't handle these mild side effects, they can use a condom. |
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| * Mitas | Nov 1 2016, 04:57 PM Post #36 |
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Why not a diaphragm? |
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"Then you've got the chance to do better next time." "Next time?" "Course. Doing better next time. That's what life is." | |
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Nov 1 2016, 05:04 PM Post #37 |
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It isn't very effective.
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| * Mitas | Nov 1 2016, 05:09 PM Post #38 |
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96% is only 2% less effective than male condoms. There are also female condoms too. |
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"Then you've got the chance to do better next time." "Next time?" "Course. Doing better next time. That's what life is." | |
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Nov 1 2016, 05:11 PM Post #39 |
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But why are we insistent on placing the sole burden and responsibility on women? I'm not even arguing this for the sake of women. So many men are screwed over and end up with a pregnant girlfriend because their girlfriend was the sole person responsible for preventing pregnancy. It's a screwed up system. |
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| * Mitas | Nov 1 2016, 05:16 PM Post #40 |
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I got the impression from your post that you were placing the entire burden on men, so was just arguing that there are other options than male birth control pills and male condoms. Obviously no one gender should be in sole charge of birth control. Find whatever routine suits the relationship of the parties involved. Just take turns if it's that much of an issue. |
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"Then you've got the chance to do better next time." "Next time?" "Course. Doing better next time. That's what life is." | |
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Nov 1 2016, 05:19 PM Post #41 |
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That's been my argument since the beginning. Trying out new methods of birth control for men is a good thing because it benefits both genders. What makes me upset is learning that they're now shelving the idea because men were complaining about the side effects, which is exactly what women go through. Women take birth control to prevent both parties from becoming parents, and because most men don't like condoms, all of that responsibility falls solely on the woman's shoulders. |
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| * Mitas | Nov 1 2016, 05:26 PM Post #42 |
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But just because women had to put up with them doesn't make it a good idea. People shouldn't be taking something if they don't want to endure the side effects, there are other options out there. I honestly wasn't even aware that the responsibility fell more on women than men. I was brought up with the idea of 'use a condom when having sex if you don't want kids or STDs' drilled into my head by parents and teachers. I was obviously aware that both parties had methods of birth control, but like I said, I grew up with the idea that if I met someone and wanted to have sex with them, I had to have a condom. Maybe I had a different upbringing than everyone else though. |
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"Then you've got the chance to do better next time." "Next time?" "Course. Doing better next time. That's what life is." | |
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Nov 1 2016, 05:30 PM Post #43 |
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Considering that most of the members in this thread so far have commented extensively on their distaste for condoms, along with my own personal experiences in which men have never wanted to use condoms, I do see it as a problem. But I'll obviously continue taking my pills that kill my sex drive for the sake of preventing an unwanted pregnancy, since that's my only other option and I'm pretty much fine with it. I'm not blaming men at all. I'm blaming research. We should have been looking into this well before now. Edited by Doggo Champion 2k17, Nov 1 2016, 05:35 PM.
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| * Mitas | Nov 1 2016, 06:03 PM Post #44 |
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It's not your only other option though. Diaphragms and female condoms exist. Also, if the guy doesn't want to use a condom and you don't wanna use birth control or any other method, tell him that if he wants to have sex then he has to use a condom. If he doesn't agree, then don't have sex with him. |
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Nov 1 2016, 06:16 PM Post #45 |
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Of course. I just think that men should be given more than one option. |
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