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Constant Rejection
Topic Started: Sep 23 2016, 10:30 PM (1,042 Views)
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Just something I'm dealing with right now. It seems every girl I try to talk to I usually get rejected in some form. I'm not asking them to like me back instantly or every girl to eventually like me so easily. Just after a while, it messes with my self-esteem and confidence.
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How do you go about finding girls to be interested in you? Randomly? By talking about life and where you want to head next and your beliefs?
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Pretty much my entire teenage years and then some. I'm just not conventionally attractive. It takes people a while to get used to me. Then I am lovable.


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Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.

How long do you wait before putting the moves on them?


Maybe you should just stop trying, be friends with them for a while and then if any get interested in you go for it.
Unless you're smokin' hot or are otherwise extremely datable girls typically don't much respond to guys that are interested in them that way from the get go. If you're pushing in that direction too much it's not gonna happen unless they feel the same.

So put the brakes on that, chill, be casual friends and let connections develop.
Decent looking girls have to put up with a lot of a***** dudes hounding them constantly so unless it's someone who sleeps around they're not going to open up to just any guy no matter how nice they seem.
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Steve
Sep 23 2016, 10:57 PM
How long do you wait before putting the moves on them?


Maybe you should just stop trying, be friends with them for a while and then if any get interested in you go for it.
Unless you're smokin' hot or are otherwise extremely datable girls typically don't much respond to guys that are interested in them that way from the get go. If you're pushing in that direction too much it's not gonna happen unless they feel the same.

So put the brakes on that, chill, be casual friends and let connections develop.
Decent looking girls have to put up with a lot of a***** dudes hounding them constantly so unless it's someone who sleeps around they're not going to open up to just any guy no matter how nice they seem.
Exactly. A relationship that is rushed into will falter as quickly as it sprung. You aren't gonna be best friends after 5 minutes, so you damn sure ain't gonna be lovers after 5 minutes.

With exceptions, of course.
Edited by Dankness Lava, Sep 23 2016, 11:00 PM.
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Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.

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Exactly. A relationship that is rushed into will falter as quickly as it sprung. You aren't gonna be best friends after 5 minutes, so you damn sure ain't gonna be lovers after 5 minutes.

With exceptions, of course.


Oh how often I wish I could go back and punch my 14 year old self in the face and tell him that...

You can certainly read and understand that but it's hard to truly get it until you're older and have already screwed it up tons of times.

Cringe young Steve, just cringe. Y u do that :T_T:
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Such is life.
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No

Everyone is different. I've been w ppl I wasn't friends to begin with and others where it started off as friendship......

@op tell yourself you're hot s*** until you believe it... whilst improving urself ofc cuz we should all be doin that anyway
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Sep 23 2016, 11:16 PM
Everyone is different. I've been w ppl I wasn't friends to begin with and others where it started off as friendship......

@op tell yourself you're hot s*** until you believe it... whilst improving urself ofc cuz we should all be doin that anyway
Long as you have something to back that claim up, yup.
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Waht claim
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That you're hot s***. Gotta have a reason to believe that, like a skill.
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Okay go tell yourself everyday that you're absolutely s*** and that you'll amount to nothing and no girl will ever like you and tell me how that works out for you next week.
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No

Literally it doesn't matter if you have nothing to back it up as long as you're working to improve yourself
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Sep 23 2016, 11:23 PM
Okay go tell yourself everyday that you're absolutely s*** and that you'll amount to nothing and no girl will ever like you and tell me how that works out for you next week.
Gee, one extreme or the other, eh? You can't just be content with who you are? Or be trying to better yourself? I mean, you can falsely boost yourself up with no true reason behind it, but it's likely just gonna bite you in the a*** one day.

Not that it matters to me.
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It's okay to be humble.
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